We bring together the experience of women who've walked the same path and the knowledge of official sources. And when information isn't enough, we connect you with a sister who'll stand by your side.
BACIM exists so that every woman finding her way in Berlin has a "bacı", a sister, by her side.
When we came to Berlin, we found the answers to our questions less on official websites and more in the experiences of women who had walked the same road. But in the communities where women supported each other, the same questions were asked again every week, and the good answers got lost over time. That's why we started BACIM: a knowledge base checked against official sources and growing with women's experiences, and a woman-to-woman support network. Today the site is run by a small team of volunteers alongside their jobs.
"Bacım" is a Turkish way of addressing someone that comes not from blood ties but from walking the same road together. It's said with the same warmth in the neighbourhood, around the table with friends and in lubunya (Turkish queer) friendships. We chose the name for exactly this inclusiveness, and we're here to make this closeness grow.
Everything that makes life in Berlin easier, in one place: common questions, step-by-step guides and a glossary of German bureaucracy.
The most asked questions from our community, with checked answers. Pick a topic:
German terms from letters and offices, explained in plain words.
Information only goes so far. Sometimes you need a companion, a conversation or someone by your side. This is where we meet.
Small groups that meet regularly. Women who share an interest or the same stage of life come together.
Check circlesIf there's something you'd like to organise or learn, add it here. Once 6 people want to join, we turn it into an event together.
Check ideasIf you need support with something, we’ll match you one-to-one with a woman who has experience in that area.
Ask for a matchBy sharing the moments you struggled, were surprised or succeeded, you can help another woman think “I’m not alone, I can do this too.” Share your story in whatever format you like, with your name or anonymously.
Share your storyShare your experience, a language you speak or a few hours with another woman. Or tell us where you are stuck, and we will connect you with the right person.
Do you have a question, a suggestion or an idea to work together? Leave a message and we will reply by email.
If you'd rather not use the form: kontakt@bacim.de
In an emergency, please do not use this form; call the numbers below.